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Now, this sort of thing really is on such a individual basis, yeah?
I really struggle with lists like these! Mainly because I don’t really ever remember what counts as a personality trait!
So off into internet land to find a list that can help me figure out what to write here. @_@;; I hate writing about myself more than most other things I have to say. >.> I can write about the kids pretty easily! Myself though? Ehh….
So, my top three personality traits that I am proud of…
- allows imperfection – I don’t know why the list I found this on calls this a NEGATIVE personality trait?! Life is imperfect, life in intensely almost agonizingly imperfect. It took a lot of hard work in my brain to allow for imperfections! Agonizing over every last detail of life being perfect isn’t a positive thing, it drives you and others absolutely batshit crazy! I’ve been there, done that, don’t want to do it again.
- sympathetic – though perhaps sometimes I am sympathetic to a fault, I used to get so wrapped up in others feelings that I got overwhelmed and just couldn’t cope with anything. Let alone my own life. I’ve learned better how to balance being sympathetic without getting fully pulled into all the emotions behind things and thus struggling emotionally.
- caring – This is another one that can be easily to a fault and mixes in with being sympathetic. I ‘care too much’ according to ever counselor/psychologist I’ve ever talked to and it sucks to hear that over and over. How do you learn to stop caring? To no longer ‘give a fuck’ as people say?
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